What to Expect on a Romance Tour: A Day-by-Day Guide (2025)
What to Expect on a Romance Tour: A Day-by-Day Itinerary
You’ve done your research, assessed your goals, and decided that a romance tour is the right path for you. It’s an exciting decision that can change your life forever. But what actually happens on one of these tours? What does a typical day look like? The idea of traveling to a new country to meet hundreds of women can feel overwhelming, but the process is structured, supportive, and designed for your success.
This guide will pull back the curtain and give you a day-by-day look at a typical 7-day romance tour. While each tour schedule may have slight variations, this itinerary covers the core experiences you can expect, from the moment you step off the plane to your final farewell.
The Definition of Romance Tours
Mail-order bride tours are trips, organized by international dating and marriage experts for single Western men. They are designed to be a safe, efficient, and structured way to meet hundreds of beautiful, verified, and marriage-minded women in a short period of time. These are not just vacations; they are matchmaking expeditions with the primary goal of helping you find your future wife.
The Stages of International Romance Tours
A romance tour is a complete process, with stages before, during, and after the trip. The most successful men are those who understand and prepare for each stage.
Stage 1: Pre-Tour Preparation
Before you ever travel, you’ll gain access to online profiles of the women you’ll meet. This is your chance to begin correspondence, learn about their personalities, and set up your itinerary, giving you a valuable head start.
Stage 2: The Tour Experience
This is the in-person meeting phase, where you will attend large social events and go on one-on-one dates. With the help of translators and a dedicated staff, you’ll focus on building genuine connections with the women you meet.
Stage 3: Post-Tour Follow-Up
After the tour, the journey continues. You’ll maintain the connections you made through long-distance communication and begin to solidify your partnership. Our team continues to offer support to help your relationship blossom into marriage.
Stage 4: Visa & Relocation
Once you’ve found your partner and are ready to be together, the final stage is navigating the legal process to bring her home. This involves the visa application, interviews, and preparing for your new life together. We provide resources to help you with every step of this journey.
A Typical 7-Day Tour Itinerary
While each tour schedule may have slight variations, this itinerary covers the core experiences you can expect, designed to maximize your time and give you the best chance of finding a connection.
Day 1: Arrival & Orientation
You’ll be greeted at the airport by our local staff and receive private transportation to your hotel. That evening, you’ll meet our team of matchmakers and translators, who will prepare you for the week ahead.
Day 2: City Tour & Hospitality Suite
Get acquainted with your new surroundings on a guided city tour. In the afternoon, our Hospitality Suite opens, offering a home base where staff can arrange one-on-one introductions.
Day 3: The Grand Social Event
This is the highlight of the tour. You’ll attend a large, invitation-only social event to meet hundreds of verified, single women. Professional translators are on hand to help you communicate and make connections.
Days 4-5: One-on-One Dating
Based on the connections you made at the social, you’ll spend these days going on real dates. Our local office is on call to help you arrange translators, book reservations, and give you date ideas.
Day 6: Second Social or More Dating
Many tours include a second social event to introduce you to a new group of women. If not, this day is dedicated to more one-on-one dates as deeper connections begin to form.
Day 7: Final Dates & Departure
This is your last full day to solidify connections and make plans for future communication. Our staff will provide transportation back to the airport, armed with phone numbers and unforgettable memories.
After the Tour: The Journey Continues
A romance tour is the beginning of a relationship, not the end. The goal is to leave with one or more strong connections that you will continue to nurture from home through calls, chats, and letters. The next steps often involve planning a return trip to see her again and, eventually, starting the visa process to bring her home. Our support continues long after the tour is over.
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Romance Tour FAQ (15 Top Questions)
Is this guide based on the AFA (A Foreign Affair) tour model?
Yes. A Foreign Affair (AFA) pioneered the romance tour industry over 25 years ago. This day-by-day guide is based on their proven, successful model that has led to thousands of happy marriages.
What makes AFA tours different from other companies?
AFA’s key differentiators are their longevity, their physical offices in every tour city, and the fact that they personally interview and screen every woman who joins the agency. This ensures a higher level of safety, support, and quality. You can read a full AFA tours review here.
Do I need to be a member of LoveMe.com to go on an AFA tour?
Yes, a Platinum Membership to LoveMe.com (AFA’s website) is included with your tour package. This allows you to browse profiles and communicate with women before your tour even begins, giving you a significant head start.
Are the women on the AFA website the same ones I’ll meet at the socials?
You will meet many of the women featured on the website, but the socials also include hundreds of personally screened women from the local city who are not active online. The socials represent the single largest opportunity to meet the most women.
What is the AFA “Executive Plan”?
The Executive Plan is a premium, highly personalized matchmaking service for busy professionals. It goes beyond a standard tour, with our matchmakers working closely with you to arrange one-on-one introductions with highly compatible women. You can learn more about the Executive Matchmaking Plan here.
How many other men will be on the tour?
Group sizes vary, but typically range from 10 to 30 men. We ensure a favorable ratio of at least 7 women to every 1 man at the social events, so there is never a feeling of competition.
What should I wear to the social events?
Smart casual is the best approach. Think of it as what you’d wear to a nice restaurant on a Saturday night. A collared shirt, nice slacks or dark jeans, and dress shoes are perfect. No need for a full suit and tie.
How do I handle so many introductions at once?
Our staff will help! The goal of the social is to find initial chemistry. Have shorter, friendly conversations and focus on getting contact information from the women who genuinely interest you for a longer, one-on-one date later.
Is it safe to go on dates alone in a foreign city?
Yes, we hold tours in cities that are safe for tourists. We provide you with safety briefings and recommend public, well-known locations for dates. Our local staff is also on call 24/7 should you ever need assistance.
How much extra money should I bring for dates?
This depends on your style. A simple coffee date might cost $10, while a fancy dinner could be $50-$100. We recommend budgeting $50-$150 per day for dates and personal expenses to be comfortable.
Do the staff help me plan the dates?
Absolutely. Our matchmaking team can give you great date ideas, help you book reservations, and arrange for a translator to accompany you if needed. We are there to handle the logistics so you can focus on the connection.
What if I’m interested in a woman from the AFA site who doesn’t attend a social?
That’s what the Hospitality Suite is for! Our staff will do their best to contact her and invite her to meet you for a personal, one-on-one introduction at your convenience in our office.
What is the age range of the women I will meet?
The age range is very broad, typically from early 20s to late 40s and beyond. There are wonderful, single women of all ages looking for a life partner.
Can I extend my stay after the tour ends?
Yes, many men choose to extend their stay to spend more time with a woman they’ve connected with. Our staff can assist you with changing your hotel reservations if needed.
Do I need to speak the local language?
No. Professional translators are provided at all social events and in the Hospitality Suite, and you can hire them for your private dates. While learning a few basic phrases is appreciated, it is not required.
Your Love Adventure Begins Here
A romance tour is more than just a vacation—it’s a proactive, efficient, and life-changing step towards finding your future wife. By understanding the process, you can arrive prepared, confident, and ready to meet the partner you’ve been searching for.
